A proper update….

I haven’t been ignoring you. I usually say it’s because I have been having too much fun but the truth be known these past days have been hard and I meant to let you know what I have been doing but I just haven’t felt up to it.

Most days I am walking around in haze. The headaches have been hurting; the cognitive loss has been hard but today is a good day. I seem to have all my faculties and I am right now feeling good. Well sort of…

So what’s been happening over the past few weeks?

I think I will work backwards. I finally had a meeting at St Bart’s where I was told I had been accepted for gamma knife. But then on Thursday I was called by Doctor Oliveros to be told that she had received a letter from Dr Plummer and he had suggested that right now I should have whole brain radiation. I was confused. I said I had received an appointment to go down the very next day. She said to go to would proceed with the whole brain radiation. Right… I hate being messed about.

We headed to London in pursuit of gamma knife. We waited and the registrar we saw had no notes on my ‘story’. The problem is when asked any questions I am getting to the point of not being able to answer. It sounds so weird but I am losing all ability to answer questions. It makes me anxious and I need Pete by my side. I have good and bad days. That day was a bad day.

Luckily Pete did what he could and we pleaded with them to give us the gamma knife. The reason Dr Plummer suggested that I have whole brain radiation is because there are more than likely going to be more than four tumours. I guess I was hoping I could have it all in one go and it would simple, one visit all done. Pete had suggested that having whole brain would be better. I guess the down side is that I have had to wait for so long. Can you believe they only have one multidisciplinary meeting a month?

The other good thing was that I got to meet Dr Plummer and he now knows who I am. The registrar got him into the room and he discussed my case with me. Pete was very patient and really tried to express his concern but it was ok. I took it on the chin. I was gutted, mainly to have waited for so long. I had the MRI on the 1st and it was now the 24th every day the headaches getting worse.

The day before I went down to the Care Oncology Clinic in Harley Street. There I discussed details of being on Metformin, Mebendazole and Atorvastatin. It was a bit weird. I have been accepted onto their plan and will be given the prescription. I am going to take it in the hope it helps me further. They actually work with Professor Dalgliesh and Professor Stebbing so they are in good company.The problem is that when I returned home I couldn’t tell Pete what I had happened. I just knew it was good!

I have also been to the hospital for five hours of treatment. I had to have globemular filtration rate. This is preparation for having carboplatin, that I intend on having possibly. I had to have my bloods taken every hour for five hours….. Oh dear god.

Before this it’s all a bit of blur. I have spent almost every day on the sofa, wandering around the house and watching my house get dustier. I’ve been lost and sad but every night Pete comes home to cheer me up. That’s the only time I am really happy. Until now. I’m having a good day.

The weekends have been great. I had my best friend Lizzy and her hubby turn up for Sunday lunch. Sadly that was a bad day and I wasn’t feeling my best but being my best friend she sat with me until I felt better.

This weekend was amazing. It was Pete’s business 25th birthday celebrations. We had planned it for months so I had no intention of not going. It was being held on a boat on the Embankment in a posh venue. I wasn’t feeling hundred per cent but having people around me helps. Plus I also find a spot of retail therapy really makes me happy! Nothing new there except I make decisions quicker. I really know what I want now!

I was a bit anxious about being left on my own without Pete as I didn’t want to trip over my words or forget something I wanted to say but thank fully I held my own and did ok.

It was an emotional night and we invited some of our friends and old staff and new staff and clients. We had a blast. Everyone was concerned about me but I wanted it to be about Pete and his achievement. It was nice seeing everyone and having plenty of cuddles.



So I have today been trying to get hold of the hospital here and thankfully have got through. It pays off to be nice to people. I am going to see Professor Harris tomorrow for a clinic appointment but have also been told that I can go to have my mask fitted in radiotherapy. I have to wear a mask over my face. Luckily the treatment is only ever about 3 minutes long so I won’t feel claustraphobic.


On Friday I was lucky enough to come home to a card from Davina McCall! I know who organised it for me but what a day to get it…. It really perked me up.


A few weeks ago on the day that I was going for my MRI I had to do my final test for the health coaching course I had been doing all year. I sadly failed by one point… I couldn’t believe it and was so gutted. I decided to not worry about it but felt absolutely mortified that I had done the course and failed it. Well they let me do it again…. and I passed! Yeha!

I said I had an appointment with Dr Kenyon from The Dove Clinic recently well I had to cancel it. I couldn’t drive, obviously and I just have to put things on the wayside. I will deal with it when my head is clearer…

My chesty cough is still there. I have got a cold though and without too much detail I am bringing a lot of yellow stuff out of my nostrils. It’s hard to wonder if that what is causing my cough. Prof Vogl said that it would clear up in two weeks. That’s about now… The thing is I coughed so hard yesterday that I have started having those pains where I can’t move my side, just like before. It’s not what I need right now, and I hope it goes by tomorrow… Please…

So in one sense I feel like I am getting somewhere and the next I am not. It’s been a long month.
I really thought I would be into the treatment by now. Thank fully Prof Vogl has been done. I am returning in a few weeks for my next visit. I will also be having treatment from Dr Nesselhut and I may be seeing Dr Seibenhuner. Let’s get charged up with whatever I can have!

I am so pleased I cancelled my clients. This time I don’t feel guilty about having had to. I just needed to.

I just want Pete to know how thankful I am to have him. He has been doing everything for me. I am like a lost sheep right now but he gives me all the love I can ever need. Give me my brain back and I will fine. I can then deal with my chest and lungs.

I want to thank everyone for the support they have been giving me. I feel overwhelmed every day.

Thank you will never be enough…….XX

Good news re gamma knife and now the next step…

I waited patiently Tuesday with no reply from Dr Oliveros regarding the result of the MDT in London. That was a first for me! By Wednesday I was getting a little worried but for once didn’t feel the need to hound the department.

My patience paid off as I got the call I was waiting for. Dr Oliveros said that Dr Plummer at St Bart’s had agreed to give me the gamma knife treatment under the NHS! Result!

She said that my notes were being sent over to him and I should hear from him within two weeks… Two weeks? Ok not to panic. I kinda thought I would be hearing sooner than that. She said if I hadn’t heard by then to contact her and she will chase up.


We discussed  the steroids I am taking and she said I could reduce right down after five days.. Good. I feel very bizarre on them. Or maybe it’s the concoction of codeine, paracetemol and steroids. The cough is my main annoyance at the moment.

She asked how my appointment went with Prof Harris and she could see that I had consented to chemo.

She seems like a really nice doctor.

What she doesn’t know is that in the meantime another canSer friend has emailed me and told me about nano knife. A private treatment available here in the UK. My friend had given me the contact details and I didn’t hesitate to call. The secretary adviced me to get a copy of my report and send to Professor Leen at the Princess Grace hospital so she could show him before he goes on holiday.

Last night I had a Skype chat with some friends from New Zealand who now live in Frankfurt. They gave me invaluable advice on treatments such as TACE as well as advising me on IPT with a Dr Seibenhuner. It seems quite intense but if I can coordinate everything it could be a really great way to ‘go hard’ combining all treatments including DC therapy with Dr Nesselhut. I feel very lucky but now have to try to coordinate as much as possible in the diary.They advised me that combining such things as radiation with other treatments releases antigens and can work synergistically.

Dr Nesselhut mentioned having PDT- photodynamic therapy and mentioned contacting Julian Kenyon here in the UK. I have done that today. It’s all worth investigating.

So now it’s back to waiting but also deciding our next step. I won’t rule out chemo as I am better off having something that I know could mop up the cells. I just want to consider the side effects such as numbness in my hands.


So so that the update for now….

I didn’t win the lottery…. No surprise there then!

I didn’t win the lottery….No surprise there then. My luck hasn’t changed. Or has it?

It has been a weekend of tears, and love and support and so many emotions I don’t no where to begin. Pete and I decided that we would have a weekend of not getting out of bed. That lasted all of about 2 minutes. As usual we couldn’t help ourselves especially as the weather ended up being really lovely and I always feel that we should at least get out in the day light whilst the weather permits. We did have plenty of time to relax and although sleep was a bit a hit and miss we both felt relaxed. I had one good night one bad but I was pleased that I got any. I have been walking around in a blur. Now this could be down to the fact I am on a cocktail of steroids and also codeine, in the hope that my headaches will pass as well as the cough. Interestingly the cough is annoying me more.

This morning Pete and I went to the hospital this time to collect my CT scan results. As Pete called it, Part Deux.

I don’t know how I thought it would go but I didn’t have any feelings either way about it. I think that I thought things couldn’t really get any worse. And they haven’t really.

The good news is there are no new ones in my bones or abdomen and that the ones that are in my lymph nodes and lungs are actually a mixed bag.

The ones that have been blasted with radiofrequency have actually got smaller and that seems to be looking good.

The ones in my left lung have stayed the same.

Then there are new ones appearing albeit very small in my lung. There is also pericardial effusion around my heart.

The right hilar lymph node is necrotic but they cannot tell if that is because it is growing quickly. In fact all of the ones in my lymph nodes are a bit bigger.

Prof Harris has suggested that I get the gamma knife treatment all sorted and then that should make that better. There is of course no way of knowing if that means they won’t come back but he suspects we can keep on top of it. He does think we should opt for a systemic treatment like chemo but he said is up to me. He suggested getting started on something like carboplatin and gemcetibine and we thought starting the consent forms was the best way to go especially as it will take about three weeks to organise and by then my brain treatment should be sorted.


In the meantime Pete and I already have a plan hatched to go to Frankfurt for TACE by Prof Vogl. Since getting home I have had a stream of emails from my Europeans friends and they have been advising me that timing it with treatments to Dr Nesselhut would be highly synergistic as well combining it with insulin potentiated therapy. I think this could be a really good route to take. We just need to organise that now too.

As expected I am still waiting for results from the MDT that occurred today at St Barts. We told Prof Harris that Dr Oliveros had said we can only have it done if there are three tumours of less. He couldn’t believe it. Prof Harris has changed and I believe it is because he has seen so many changes in the cancer world. He is so much more open and friendly now too.

As much as I don’t relish going on chemo it is definitely something I would do but I will lean for TACE first. I don’t want to spend any more money but I do want to try other things and I do want to give it my all.

I am bit disappointed that I haven’t yet had a call but I trust that Dr Oliveros will call when the time is right.

I suggested to Prof Harris about a trial that is happening at St Bart’s that my friend has told me about. It is using immunotherapy and has been raved about apparently. He thinks I won’t be able to get on it because I have already had immunotherapy but he said it is worth a try.

I think I will continue with the immunotherapy at the London Clinic. I still think that things are going well in that department. The thing is if these brain tumours hadn’t appeared it would still be going in the right direction… sort of…

I have been cancelling clients today and been making a plan for taking more time for myself… The thing is until I get an answer from Dr Oliveros I still feel aloof.

I felt really loved today at hospital. Pete was surprised at what staff in the pharmacy and the nurses who work with Prof Harris were all like with me. The thing is I have been going there a long time. They all bent backwards for me and made my life as easy as possible. I am feeling really loved.