The Bear is back…

Another five days have passed. Time flies when you are having fun! The week flew by actually and I have had more friends arrive and my step son leave. And at last the Bear is back! It’s been an interesting week. I am not the most confident person on the roads abroad and this last week I have been forced to drive, if I actually wanted to leave the villa. I would have been fine driving my little car that is parked outside my house in England but I have been driving Petes car. Parking has been an experience. I was happy for Pete to return yesterday to take over the driving role!

Our friends from Ireland are with us now for a few days. It’s so funny seeing them here. Obviously we don’t get to see them much but taking every opportunity to catch up is brilliant. We are so relaxed, chatting, laughing and loving. Their daughter Marsha is gorgeous and brings us so much happiness. I love her passion for shopping…. A true girly girl!

In the last few days I have abandoned having green juice. I am taking my meds and supps with lemon, bicarbonate of soda and olive oil water. This is much better and I am no longer nauseas. It is also funny how my diet really has changed. I am indulging in everything and anything I want. I am not being lazy. I am not feeling guilty. I am simply going with the flow. I do think it has having a slight adverse effect on my body such as diarrhoea and headaches but I love checking out the menu each evening and thinking, pasta… Yes why not. My friend Patricia said maybe my body is healing and letting it have what it craves is a good thing. I have spent so much time in the past few years doing the ‘right’ thing. I don’t think it will hurt doing what I feel for a while.

I am now going into my, wait for it, third week here in the South of France! I know! Three weeks! I may not be sleeping because of the heat, I may have mosquito bites itching me and I may be putting on some weight… But I feel so free. I have never stayed somewhere like this. I sometimes do my rituals such as enema, meditation and yoga and sometimes I don’t. Isn’t that great? Doing what ever I feel like doing.

What I do religiously is sit in the sun… I love the sun. In fact I have changed colour somewhat… I do love a tan. So I guess my vitamin d levels are quite high. It’s ok though.. I am preparing for the dark winter ahead.

I do have the odd thought about home. I am still planning treatment for my return. I text Carol the nurse from St George’s as I still haven’t had a reply about the next round of il2 injections. Carol, bless her, replied from her last day on holiday and said that if I didn’t hear from her on Thursday to contact her. I’ve text her again. I still have time to organise.

I still have the cough, although annoying, Pete says he doesn’t think it is getting any worse.

When Pete went home he picked up the recent copy of Prima magazine. Why? Because I am in it! I’ve attached a few pictures with the text. It’s so funny seeing myself in a magazine.. It was also very nice the other day to be mentioned in an interview with one of the lady’s from Nicola Jane mastectomy lingerie. My fifteen minutes of fame! Haha!

magazine
So what is happening today? Soulful Sunday.. Fresh foods, plenty of sunning myself and plenty of time to be grateful. The main theme of the day… Love.

Tunes are playing by the pool… I am  having lots of cuddles with my Bear (well I need to catch up on the last weeks worth that I missed!) and then tonight we are off to St Tropez…. Darhlink!

Hope you are all feeling the love today.. Happy Sunday!
Xx

I asked the Universe for a gift…

The last few days have been glorious and as I sit here now I keep looking into the garden thinking just ten more minutes till there is no more sun left…

I have been trying to take things steady since Sunday and have laid off exercising properly. I have done some stretches and a little plank here or there with some squats thrown in for good measure.

I have been busily getting my house in order and preparing for trip… But this time it is a trip for fun not treatment. I’m a little bit excited. The Easter weekend is here and I am spending it with my man. My favourite person…

But even though things have been ticking along steadily there have been things nagging at me.

The pain in my side, I thought was healing. It is only by the time I go to bed that it really plays up. But yesterday I was in agony from about 6pm. It’s so debilitating and if this is a muscular injury, boy, I don’t want it again thank you very much! I don’t take pain relief usually as I would rather feel the pain and let it go naturally but last night I took 1000mg of paracetemol, 600mg of ibuprofen and 20mg of codeine. And even then the pain didn’t go fully. I did sleep though but awoke in pain again. Every deep breath and cough makes it hurt.

I noticed today though that the pain is directly under my mastectomy scar and it does feel tender to touch now, like it is muscle pain. But weird that it is right where the scar tissue is. Pete still thinks stress is a major factor. Its funny where we hold tension and he should know as his back goes almost every time we are due to go away.

But I guess that’s how the body manifests ‘stuff’. It’s trying to tell me something and I know what it is… patience! And that the Universe will guide me once it is good and ready…

Well I have been patient but I wasn’t going to wait for the Universe to present things to me so, in my impatience I decided that I would call Prof Dalgliesh. I had emailed loads and it seemed that I wasn’t getting heard. On calling I was met by Prof D’s secretary. She is very short with me on the phone and said, ‘Oh, you have been accepted’. What?! Yes, they have accepted you for the vaccination trial. Oh right, well thanks for informing me.

She proceeded to give me a few details of when it would start but I asked her to let me know as much as possible as I know nothing about it. She said I may be starting on the 1st may. She did try to get it on the 24th but they are too busy.  She said that even though it’s a trial and should be free because it is administered at eth London Clinic they would be charging me for every visit. She wasn’t sure of costs but would find out. She do you know anything about the trial? No! Oh, haven’t you had a patient brochure sent? Well who was going to send it to me? Anyway that has now arrived.

I asked about ablation. She said flatly that she doesn’t deal with that. Well who does? She said they should be contacting me. How? By email, letter, phone? And who would be contacting me? I again explained that I have no idea what’s going on and someone needs to help.

Once I received the patient brochure I emailed her to thank her for her time and explained that my brain was going to pop with anxiety and stress if someone didn’t help me. I got a reply saying she would email the consultant. I then got a further email to say that the consultant is away until the 22nd April… FFS. Well at least I know.

So good news I think! Well at least we are getting there. i still feel uneasy and lots of loose ends but surely this is good right?

Apparently the vaccinations will be every two weeks, then if I tolerate that well every month and so on. I will post the information regarding the vaccine once I have digested the information.

It’s funny because I am reading Pam Grouts book, E Squared and in it the first exercise is to ask the Universe for a gift within 48 hours. This is to prove that the Field of Potentiality, Source, God or whatever, exists.  I asked yesterday at 12.55pm. OK, so I had to chase the gift but I got it didn’t I? So just over 24hours isn’t bad at all eh?

One more thing… I actually have a bit of a sun tan…. I love the sun!

I asked the Universe for a gift…

The last few days have been glorious and as I sit here now I keep looking into the garden thinking just ten more minutes till there is no more sun left…

I have been trying to take things steady since Sunday and have laid off exercising properly. I have done some stretches and a little plank here or there with some squats thrown in for good measure.

I have been busily getting my house in order and preparing for trip… But this time it is a trip for fun not treatment. I’m a little bit excited. The Easter weekend is here and I am spending it with my man. My favourite person…

But even though things have been ticking along steadily there have been things nagging at me.

The pain in my side, I thought was healing. It is only by the time I go to bed that it really plays up. But yesterday I was in agony from about 6pm. It’s so debilitating and if this is a muscular injury, boy, I don’t want it again thank you very much! I don’t take pain relief usually as I would rather feel the pain and let it go naturally but last night I took 1000mg of paracetemol, 600mg of ibuprofen and 20mg of codeine. And even then the pain didn’t go fully. I did sleep though but awoke in pain again. Every deep breath and cough makes it hurt.

I noticed today though that the pain is directly under my mastectomy scar and it does feel tender to touch now, like it is muscle pain. But weird that it is right where the scar tissue is. Pete still thinks stress is a major factor. Its funny where we hold tension and he should know as his back goes almost every time we are due to go away.

But I guess that’s how the body manifests ‘stuff’. It’s trying to tell me something and I know what it is… patience! And that the Universe will guide me once it is good and ready…

Well I have been patient but I wasn’t going to wait for the Universe to present things to me so, in my impatience I decided that I would call Prof Dalgliesh. I had emailed loads and it seemed that I wasn’t getting heard. On calling I was met by Prof D’s secretary. She is very short with me on the phone and said, ‘Oh, you have been accepted’. What?! Yes, they have accepted you for the vaccination trial. Oh right, well thanks for informing me.

She proceeded to give me a few details of when it would start but I asked her to let me know as much as possible as I know nothing about it. She said I may be starting on the 1st may. She did try to get it on the 24th but they are too busy.  She said that even though it’s a trial and should be free because it is administered at eth London Clinic they would be charging me for every visit. She wasn’t sure of costs but would find out. She do you know anything about the trial? No! Oh, haven’t you had a patient brochure sent? Well who was going to send it to me? Anyway that has now arrived.

I asked about ablation. She said flatly that she doesn’t deal with that. Well who does? She said they should be contacting me. How? By email, letter, phone? And who would be contacting me? I again explained that I have no idea what’s going on and someone needs to help.

Once I received the patient brochure I emailed her to thank her for her time and explained that my brain was going to pop with anxiety and stress if someone didn’t help me. I got a reply saying she would email the consultant. I then got a further email to say that the consultant is away until the 22nd April… FFS. Well at least I know.

So good news I think! Well at least we are getting there. i still feel uneasy and lots of loose ends but surely this is good right?

Apparently the vaccinations will be every two weeks, then if I tolerate that well every month and so on. I will post the information regarding the vaccine once I have digested the information.

It’s funny because I am reading Pam Grouts book, E Squared and in it the first exercise is to ask the Universe for a gift within 48 hours. This is to prove that the Field of Potentiality, Source, God or whatever, exists.  I asked yesterday at 12.55pm. OK, so I had to chase the gift but I got it didn’t I? So just over 24hours isn’t bad at all eh?

One more thing… I actually have a bit of a sun tan…. I love the sun!