We started to move into the light. I had a conference to attend, which I left after about 30 minutes as my mind was a blur. This could not be happening and my thoughts were a complete jumble, where to start?
First thing was to decide if we should tell anyone. Our theory on this, was, that is someone asked they cared and if they cared we would not pretend to them. In this way surprisingly on day 2 most of our friends were told – just goes to show how many people think of you all the time.